Tuesday, December 9, 2008

the power of three..*wink*

then..2003
we are sisters..all three girls.. me, Nizethal and Nizareth..three different personalities, different outlook in life,different moods (topak) but with the same family name.."ADUCAL"..



now..2008




growing up with two sisters, i thought will not be that easy. when we are much younger, considering nizeth and I have 5years age gap then niza and her only has 2years age difference, i really prefer to have a baby brother then..matagal din akong parang naging only child..and then when iam tired of playing with the same playmates, after 5yirs thats the time i asked my parents to give me a baby brother..mama and papa tried and tried..she even have two miscarriages then finally we have Nizethal..and she's a Girl..In my heart i have silently wished for a baby brother.. for at that time, i know i will get jealous of having a baby sister..at a very young age, i know my parents' attention will be divided if i will have a baby sister..but if it will be a boy,mama will be the one to love him more then papa will love me more..(huh what a myth!) But unfortunately,,after years of waiting God gave our family a baby girl! (hehehe hindi ako nanalo)

When Nizeth was born, i was just left at home waiting for her to arrive..everyone's bc.Then came the new princess of the house,papa's the one carrying her..she was so little, so white, and so pretty (than me..=) sbi ng uncle noene ko that time..ganda dw ng baby sister ko..ang dami ng buhok..ang itim..even at a young age,i felt a pang of jealousy..mas maganda tlg cya skin..tpos dti ako nkkita ko baby pics ko kalbo ako..cute lng,hehhe..pero cya pretty..(haay).. i really felt so different..(honestly). There's this one incident nga visitors kept on coming to see her..then i heard them say,"ang ganda ganda nman ng baby ni mare singkit ung mata tsk black n black and curly ung buhok, ang swerte! tpos ung panganay nya ang talino! (hehe what a comparison, cya maganda ako matalino!?gnon tlg!)pero what can i do, she's my sister now..and i have no choice..(peace man!hihi)




growing up with her is a fun experience. kc we get to discover how different we are.. c nizeth i think got most of her attitude at my mama's side..mga palaban.. whenever she's mad you would know..grabe ung mata nyan khit singkit nkairap..dti nga when she was i think kinder, we fought..kinuha ko kc ung pera nya,(hehe bully) nlaman nya..kaya aun ngwala..ginulo nya lahat ung furniture s sala..nglumpsay cya..iyak ng iyak..humiga s carpet, s simento, nagpapadyak tpos binato ako ng barya!!ang skit!! tinamaan ako..gusto ko din sna batuhin pero buti pinigil kme ni papa..(hehe naaalala mo un nize!) tpos ayun, napalo cya..(first tym ni papa namalo at cya ung naka-experience!!tigas kc ulo!)




Now that we are both grown ups, we still do have our misunderstanding..kc totally opposite kme ang ugali..ako im not into barkada pero cya sobrang dami..she drinks (tumador!!) me im not used to it..she likes going out and staying till wee hours in the morning, me.. i just like staying at home.. she's medyo kuripot while me totally opposite!!(bulagsak!!)..those are just some of our differences..pero we still get along..gnon tlg eh..in the end kau pa din magkakampi..


I admire my sister's personality..she knows what she wants..she can put up a face that shes brave and when it comes to her love life i never saw her soo hurt..i didnt saw her cry buckets of tears..cguro hindi lng nya masyado pinapakita skin..i really like our relationship now..we can be so open to each other..during my vacation, i really can depend on her..she's my 24hrs driver..(hehe, ang bait nya khit wlang tulog pagdadrive nya p din ako!!) sbi ko nga s kanya if ever her call center career wont flourish, she can be a "taxi driver"!!!she's really good at it..(ok ba?!!) she's also a make up artist,sooo kikay!!she's the one responsible why now im so fascinated will make-ups..sbi nya kc,"ate magayos k nga!!kelan ka pa matututo magayos ng sarili mo..mukha kang manag!!" ngyn n malayo ako s knila,wla n tuloy ako make-up artist..huhuhu




but seriously, i really wish her well..i just want her to be happy cause she really deserves it..i will be for ever thankful for i drew strength from her..marami n di kme npagdaanan, and she's always there to reassure me that everything will be okay and it always has a purpose. i may be the eldest pero for me she's like my ate!

Now i know the reason why God gave me a little sister..and i thank God for giving me somebody like her..Pretty, strong willed and soo loving..=)

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